Relationships
Improve Your Relationships with Hypnosis
You may need some relationship help if you’re having a hard time getting along with other people or you don’t know how to manage conflict. As Jean-Paul Sartre said: ‘hell is other people’.
Wouldn’t it be great if other people could see things the way we did?
Unfortunately, many times that doesn’t happen – yet despite this fact, we can learn to live peacefully in this world and enjoy happy and harmonious relationships; but only by working on ourselves first.
Relationship and Marriage Issues
Let’s start by talking about significant relationships. The quality of a person’s life can be severely impeded if they aren’t getting along with their partner.
Some common Issues that arise between couples are:
- Ego battles/wanting to be right;
- Ignoring significant issues that need to be addressed due to fear of conflict;
- Avoiding important discussions and then using passive-aggressive behaviours in an attempt to get emotional needs met;
- Mismatches in core values or needs.
Often these conflicts tend to play themselves out in relation to subjects such as money, sex, child-rearing and division of household chores.
Know Your Relationship Dealbreakers
If you want your relationship to thrive you have to know what your dealbreakers are. A dealbreaker is a condition you need to be fulfilled in order to be happy in the relationship.
Some examples of dealbreakers are :
- Your specific needs regarding trust and fidelity do not match those of your partner;
- One of you wants children and the other does not;
- Lying, deception or dishonesty
It doesn’t matter how perfect the relationship is…if the dealbreakers are not met, then the relationship will not last.
Office Politics and Bullying
Almost everybody knows somebody who annoys or upsets them. If you’re dealing with a workplace bully or somebody who is making your life difficult, hypnosis can help.
A certified hypnotherapist can explore any old beliefs that may be stopping you from acting in an assertive manner, and show you tools to help you communicate clearly and firmly.
The sessions focus on building confidence, resilience and self-reliance. These factors enhance your ability to communicate assertively, take control of the situation and manage any conflicts effectively.
With old beliefs removed and new patterns in pace, you will no longer be afraid to speak up whether that be asking for what you need, bringing up a difficult topic or making positive suggestions in the workplace.
How A Hypnotherapist Can Help with Your Relationship Issues
A qualified hypnotherapist can help you gain the clarity you need in your relationship by:
- Helping you define your dealbreakers and set boundaries in the relationship that allow them to be met;
- Improve your confidence and communication skills so you can express clearly and concisely;
- Remove any negative beliefs and baggage that you have carried from the past that may be affecting your relationship now;
- Make decisions about your relationship from a place of power rather than from a place of fear.
If you’re seeking a qualified hypnotherapist to assist with relationship or marriage challenges, you can call me directly or visit the Contact Us page for more details.
Other Relationship Issues
Other ways a hypnotherapist can help you are:
- Helping you find a partner;
- Move on from a past relationship;
- Increase your confidence and self-respect so you can communicate easily with others
CASE STUDY: How Patrick Saved His Marriage
Patrick came to see me after he had an affair. He wanted to save his 18-year marriage and make sure he didn’t make the same mistake a second time.
We explored the reasons why Patrick felt the need to stray from his marriage and uncovered the beliefs and mindsets that were causing him to self-sabotage.
He was able to understand what deeper need he had been fulfilling by having the affair and find better ways to manage that need that didn’t involve hurting his family. Last I heard, Patrick and his wife have deepened their relationship and come out the other end even stronger.
You Can Enjoy Healthy and Happy Relationships
If you have trouble forming or keeping relationships that are important to you, or if you are experiencing difficulties communicating with others, you may benefit from some relationship help.
As a Melbourne-based hypnotherapist, I am dedicated to guiding you towards a happier lifestyle through the transformative benefits of hypnosis therapy. You are most welcome to call me directly or visit my Contact Us page for more information.